tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post7585982722137705543..comments2023-10-31T11:40:59.048-04:00Comments on The Tubman Solution: Sister’s: Sure Shot Formula for How to get what you want from any Man (I’m sorry about the length, but it might be helpful)James Tubmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04192686802895547676noreply@blogger.comBlogger54125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-35022332224268511242008-03-15T13:38:00.000-04:002008-03-15T13:38:00.000-04:00So I read this post again to find something wrong ...So I read this post again to find something wrong with it and basically just to start trouble because you know thats what i like to do here tub... then I saw your last comment to me and you started it with <BR/><BR/>"my gorgoeus beauty ebonne"<BR/><BR/>Now how the heck can i talk smack to you when you came at me like that...<BR/><BR/>thanks for that... i have been in a little bit of a funk the last 48 hours and that really made my day...<BR/><BR/>so I wont cause trouble but I do want to know if you have a girlfriend or if any of this stuff has ever worked on you... do you have any personal instances that you can share.Eb the Celebhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12920888116302185562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-72044800507119689602008-02-04T11:54:00.000-05:002008-02-04T11:54:00.000-05:00thanx mysterythis is what i dothanx mystery<BR/><BR/>this is what i doJames Tubmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04192686802895547676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-73596240324992656512008-02-01T16:42:00.000-05:002008-02-01T16:42:00.000-05:00What the!!!?? Oh my goodness this is the greatest ...What the!!!?? Oh my goodness this is the greatest post ever!!! jk. Lol.<BR/><BR/>But seriously. I am SO glad that I came across your blog and read this.<BR/><BR/>I really have a problem with patience and probably need to paste then on my mirror.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for the advice! God bless.Charihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00148087840882038446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-61879952864210505552008-01-24T15:38:00.001-05:002008-01-24T15:38:00.001-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.James Tubmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04192686802895547676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-61100273428066499042008-01-24T15:38:00.000-05:002008-01-24T15:38:00.000-05:00@semi... i know it sucks man lolwe definately need...@semi... i know it sucks man lol<BR/><BR/>we definately need to be taught this earlier in life <BR/><BR/>this educational system would rather teach you how to weave baskets than teach you how to maintain a long lasting relationship<BR/><BR/>is this really progress<BR/><BR/>@lil sis...you growing up on me now i gotta start treating you like a full fledged woman lol<BR/><BR/>@ticia...thanx for dropping a note<BR/><BR/>love ya<BR/><BR/>@danyelle... your boyfriend sure is lucky lol<BR/><BR/>this stuff has been proven to work so i think you should still do it<BR/><BR/>@anonymous... no problem, my pleasure<BR/><BR/>@queen... my queen <BR/><BR/>i would love to see you post something from the female perspective <BR/><BR/>if you don't do it i guess i'll have to <BR/><BR/>@heru... man that was a nice image you just gave <BR/><BR/>if anything shows appreciation it's doing that right there <BR/><BR/>holla<BR/><BR/>@shai...oh we gonna get ours too <BR/><BR/>in my post "how to make a woman happy during her most difficult times" i talk about the fact that when she's having a bad day she's probably gonna blame us for everything<BR/><BR/>but this something that balck people have to understand, the message is not always going to be in the words <BR/><BR/>this is where love comes in <BR/><BR/>if you love somebody you gotta be there to understand them when times are hard <BR/><BR/>that is when you love really counts<BR/><BR/>@fantasy queen... the man really wants to do everything he can to satisfy you <BR/><BR/>but most men don't know that because they are not in touch with their true nature <BR/><BR/>it's not manipulation <BR/><BR/>you are showing him how to love <BR/><BR/>that is a blessing, not a ploy to controlJames Tubmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04192686802895547676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-46272387809794452092008-01-23T16:56:00.000-05:002008-01-23T16:56:00.000-05:00lol at DL's additions...but really, it all sounds ...lol at DL's additions...but really, it all sounds alot like blackmail, the whole cunnin manipulation to get stuff...not saying i dont do it, but just tryin to figure it out...a gals got to do wat a gals got to do.Joy Akuthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11208651697541850438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-39980049538560528812008-01-22T17:06:00.000-05:002008-01-22T17:06:00.000-05:00If he bitches at me its OK, if I bitch to him it i...If he bitches at me its OK, if I bitch to him it is not. WTF! LOL.<BR/><BR/>I read John Gray's book and I don't agree with everything. Plus all that work to get a man to stuff? LOL.Shaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09049949734768494039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-35363549275481319172008-01-21T23:43:00.000-05:002008-01-21T23:43:00.000-05:00C'mon Tub...men want appreciation from a woman. Bu...C'mon Tub...men want appreciation from a woman. But what a man wants most is to know that at the end of the day, his woman will be laying in his arms, fresh from a jean nate bubblebath, fragrantly oiled from head to toe, ready to be taken to La La land. That's the ultimate appreciation gift a woman could give to a (deserving) man.Heruhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03733831470697356705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-44059398158081164842008-01-21T10:31:00.000-05:002008-01-21T10:31:00.000-05:00How did I miss this post? Anyhoo, good one. Was th...How did I miss this post? Anyhoo, good one. Was thinking about posting a female version, but opted against it.Queen of My Castlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09733155605753992587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-63474246679408101492008-01-21T09:14:00.000-05:002008-01-21T09:14:00.000-05:00i love that pic! never did get around to reading. ...i love that pic! never did get around to reading. will revisitDiary of a Mad Soul Sistahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05662405435264481676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-46352765813852433462008-01-21T09:03:00.000-05:002008-01-21T09:03:00.000-05:00thnks a million james. will print this and kip.thnks a million james. will print this and kip.anonymous gal(retired blogger)https://www.blogger.com/profile/12768071439274705742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-40105942486901464072008-01-20T22:48:00.000-05:002008-01-20T22:48:00.000-05:00Lol, this is funny! In a good way though because I...Lol, this is funny! In a good way though because I saw myself doing all these steps to get what I want from my bf. Love this post!!!Danyellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03950408739988952240noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-54794836291054613232008-01-20T17:53:00.000-05:002008-01-20T17:53:00.000-05:00I am so late on this one! Sorry!This is a good lis...I am so late on this one! Sorry!<BR/><BR/>This is a good list...wish I could have known some of this before! <BR/><BR/>I will use some of your advice in the future! <BR/><BR/>Peace :)Ticiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13956393573041401364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-69944316651945078082008-01-20T16:45:00.000-05:002008-01-20T16:45:00.000-05:00Wow.. now i'm koffee Dyme? lol.. alright i hear y...Wow.. now i'm koffee Dyme? lol.. alright i hear you.. just checking...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-67335527290715994322008-01-20T16:40:00.000-05:002008-01-20T16:40:00.000-05:00As always, very thought-provoking list! Where was ...As always, very thought-provoking list! Where was this list when I first got married??! lol.. I need to retrace my steps!<BR/><BR/>Have a great week..Simi Speakshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07312770497507811089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-20220785197178120462008-01-20T15:51:00.000-05:002008-01-20T15:51:00.000-05:00@koffee dyme...that's because i like you twice as ...@koffee dyme...that's because i like you twice as much :)<BR/><BR/>@honey...thanx for the lovely compliment<BR/><BR/>i hope you stop by again soon<BR/><BR/>peaceJames Tubmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04192686802895547676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-44752681716996671742008-01-20T15:09:00.000-05:002008-01-20T15:09:00.000-05:00I see you up over my land every now and then ....W...I see you up over my land every now and then ....What you looking for? lol... oh you got me up twice in your links....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-14630272170209230762008-01-20T14:00:00.000-05:002008-01-20T14:00:00.000-05:00@deepnthought... thank you so much for such a hear...@deepnthought... thank you so much for such a heartfelt response sis<BR/><BR/>in order to learn anything you have to be trained to do it <BR/><BR/>this is why we go to school <BR/><BR/>so that we can be trained to become professionals in our field<BR/><BR/>the television is training us everyday to buy stuff <BR/><BR/>we are always being trained to do something <BR/><BR/>most men haven't been appropriately and deliberately taught how to understand the female mind<BR/><BR/>but if you have the knowledge to help him<BR/><BR/>and by doing this your relationship will be better, i don't see why you wouldn't do it<BR/><BR/>human beings get our highest sense of self esteem from our interactions with each other<BR/><BR/>certainly we derive some sense of esteem from our inner core, our morals, principles, values and so forth<BR/><BR/>but having other people love us and cherish us is what we really want <BR/><BR/>most women are afraid to ask for anything because they have such low expectations for men<BR/><BR/>i think that is the real problem<BR/><BR/>@don...omg tryna start some ish lol<BR/><BR/>thanx bruh<BR/><BR/>she did make some good comments <BR/><BR/>the train of thought i'm writing from is so alien to how many black women are used to thinking<BR/><BR/>so i can understand why they reject such knowledge<BR/><BR/>@shy... welcome sister <BR/><BR/>glad you stumbled here <BR/><BR/>don't ever be too shy to come back lol<BR/><BR/>@dl... see you ain't right for that lol<BR/><BR/>now if you ask for anything (especially during #1) you getting it <BR/><BR/>i don't care what it is lol<BR/><BR/>but what you're doing is setting conditions on him doing something for you <BR/><BR/>because if he says no some negative consequence will happen<BR/><BR/>that strategy does work but in the long run it builds a lot of resentmentJames Tubmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04192686802895547676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-41445612701095063072008-01-20T06:32:00.000-05:002008-01-20T06:32:00.000-05:00James there r some things not added 2 that list so...James there r some things not added 2 that list so imma help u out here.<BR/>Sisters-if u wanna get stuff 4rm ur man, do this<BR/>1.Give good head-yup! Ask for whatever u want when he.s about to burst his nut.<BR/>2.Cook his favourite meal and ask him for anything when he.s eating.<BR/>3.hehehehe when he asks for the pussy, ask for what u need. Tit 4 tat baby.<BR/>4.Y'all should clap for me.<BR/>5.I'm out!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-41921519817077015802008-01-20T03:04:00.000-05:002008-01-20T03:04:00.000-05:00came across your page while i was noseing on someo...came across your page while i was noseing on someone else...lol. i have to say, your points is..uhh.. very interesting, will try to keep it in mind and put it to practice.<BR/><BR/>ps: hope you don't mind i add you on a blogroll.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-38189845715855667152008-01-19T22:42:00.000-05:002008-01-19T22:42:00.000-05:00lol @ one man opinion comments.You made some good ...lol @ one man opinion comments.<BR/><BR/>You made some good points. Although I can see where deepnthought is coming from.<BR/><BR/>Good post.Donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02904024507867487521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-20820509696421133352008-01-19T22:08:00.000-05:002008-01-19T22:08:00.000-05:00I just read this post all the way throughI must sa...I just read this post all the way through<BR/>I must say, I dont agree with some of this. Direct is the only way to be.<BR/><BR/>I am not into training anyone. A grown man should not have to be trained. It is not my job to train a grown man. You train animals. <BR/><BR/>I also feel that you cant give a person self esteem. You have to find your own. Now, I do not believe in emasculating a man. So, I guess a lot of your tips, I already do or did in a relationship. I dont argue. I dont pick. I ask, and thats is. If he doesnt want to do it then fine. I wont beg. I wont wait around. I probably wont ask more than once either. And that comes from being influenced by militant older brothers.deepnthoughthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06068076303330217285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-11427136945193536132008-01-19T15:55:00.000-05:002008-01-19T15:55:00.000-05:00@dl... i know, i know you gotta take baby steps@iv...@dl... i know, i know <BR/><BR/>you gotta take baby steps<BR/><BR/>@ivanna...some guys can actually pick up the hints <BR/><BR/>but when women aren't direct some men might think that they really don't expect them to do it <BR/><BR/>sometimes it's annoying <BR/><BR/>but i know why women do it so i just laugh lol<BR/> <BR/>@afro... i'm sorry if you hadn't had success <BR/><BR/>i get this stuff from research <BR/><BR/>i will eventually be paid for doing this so i believe that these techniques are the right ones to use <BR/><BR/>some i've actually tried myself<BR/><BR/>some things aren't for everybody thoughJames Tubmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04192686802895547676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-27425052751199839832008-01-19T14:58:00.000-05:002008-01-19T14:58:00.000-05:00wish just one of this suggestions would really wor...wish just one of this suggestions would really work...but I guess one man's meat.....Afrobabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01418456633732918114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8822586937468575205.post-86026918141353540972008-01-19T14:20:00.000-05:002008-01-19T14:20:00.000-05:00useful tips.... Its kinda weird that as women we a...useful tips.... Its kinda weird that as women we are taught never to ask and just kinda expect that the guy should know, well I've tried it my way there's really no harm in trying this ...once again thanks!inStilettoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16979919556529846138noreply@blogger.com