Friday, August 22, 2008

Why Men Cheat And How To Deal With It!

This is a question that men and women have puzzled over since the first maan crept out on his partner. Well you are in luck because im gonna give you the answers today. But before i give them to you, i just want the guys to know something. Whatever people do to try and deamonize you for this problem, its not your fault. There is no class in school or in most cases no ones at home to teach men how to be faithful in their relationship. In fact there is a lot of social pressure for men to have multiple sexual partners because having multiple sex partners is seen to be associated with a personal assertion of ones masculinity in this culture. Plainly said, men think they are more manly when they can satisfy many women sexually. When you look at music videos, for instance, you see men routinely surrounded by so called beautiful, scantily clad women who adore them. Worship him. Fight over each other to have a chance merely to touch him. Fanatsy. But many of us have internalized these fantasies.



OK lol, so before we get too carried away, lets the reasons why men cheat!



Reason #1 - Men have been socially conditioned to believe that its perfectly fine to have sex with different partners whenever they feel like it.



We just talked a little on how this mentality is shaped. Just imagine seeing thousands of videos like this from boyhood to manhood. Seeing your father in many relationships with different women, and being personally attracted to many women yourself. You can now begin to have some sense of not only the social pressures, but the biological, natural pressures to act out this impulse with different women. This inclination must be controled in some way.



Reason #2 - The Man Feels Smothered By The One He's With



I think to understand this you have to understand how women show their love and affection in a relationship. When a woman has fallen for a man or loves a man, that man becomes her whole life. She's always talking about him, she thinks about him all the time, she's picking out her clothing to meet his taste, she's always pumping him for information to see what his favorite meal is, what his favorite this or that is (you get the picture lol). And this preoccupation with him causes her to want to share every part of her with him and have him do the same with her (because thats the way women are towards each other. The more they share about themselves the closer they feel towards each other.) Certainly men desire to share important experiences with their partners. And most definately we want to know what a woman likes so we can be more sucessful in making her happy (because that is what a man truly wants believe or not). But when men are sharing too much and are too intimate with women they are acting in a way that is outside of their nature. At that time they feel that they have to get away from the woman, momentarily to regroup and figure out how best to approach this situation on his own. When this happens the woman gets confused and wants to talk about this with the man. But he feels as if has to figure it out for himself. Anyway, when he's in this state he might blame the woman for being too needy, or begin to see other flaws in her because he doesnt understand that women act like that to show him how much she cares about him. So he might at this time conclude that this isnt the woman for me and at that time look for another woman or he might fall for another one who gives him the attention he had in the begining of the relationship with his present lover.

Reason #3 - He Feels That He Is Not Making His Partner Happy

When men have problems they take some alone time to think about solutions, they look to others for solutions, or if they still cant solve the problem forget about it. A man truly wants to make his woman feel happy because it produces more testosterone for him. This is a hormone that relieves stree and produces an overall sense of contentment in men. One of the main ways the man's body produces testosterone is through being sucessful in his pursuits. If he feels that no matter what he does he still cant make that woman happy than he naturally seeks someone else to make happy. Because his identity is wrapped around being successful in life and he feels he might have a better time attaining that success with someone else.

Now cheating isnt right because for one thing it causes a whole lot of confusion for a man and for another thing, you reap what you sow. So how can a man prevent himself from giving into his desires to have an affair.

#1 - Make sure you know the nature of a woman.

Just because a woman wants a man to share all of his personal feelings and wants to share herself completely with her doesnt mean that she's too needy or that she's not the one. It just a natural way of giving love. (BTW the way a man naturally wants to express his love is through sex (that is a true statement lol). So when she acts like this dont hold it against her.

#2 - Stay Faithful and have sex with just one woman so you can know for sure if she's right for you or not!

This is why you cant mess with many women at the same time because when you are continuously bouncing off of different women you dont know who you are really in love with (i really need to explain why this is the case but this post is getting too long). Find the one you are most interested in. Stay monogamous to her for an extended period of time. And if you start to realize that she isnt the one for you, cut her off and try someone else.

#3 - Whenever you see an attractive woman or think about an attractive woman or a sexual experience you might have had with one, focus on a the best sexual experience you had with your partner.

John Gray talks bout this in a talk i saw on google video's (i'll leave a link later). This technique is called anchoring, pairing one experience with another to draw power from one of these experiences. If you continuously think about sex with your current partner whenever you start to have attractive feelings for another woman all of that sexual energy is being directe towards the one you're with now and your sexual experiences with this woman will be much more fulfilling. Trust me, ive actually tried this a few times. It might difficult to do at first because it seems strange and you might not even want to do it, but do it anyway and i bet the sexual experiences with your partner in the next coming weeks will be much much better.

Holla!

43 comments:

koffeedyme said...

I'm First.. wooooooo...
Interesting post.. I see your personality in it... woo lil sis knows you huh?

I think i'm convinced that most men cheats... my birth dad, my former step dad.. dude dated... but you explained it well... I like to think if a man has an idea of what he wants and follow thru with it, as well as getting to know the current person hes with, everything will become clear to him...

I always tell dude, I will not be the home wrecker and not to even think about making me the rebound girl because he honestly don't know what hes looking for...

RealHustla said...

Surprisingly all your points make sense to me this time. I'm always looking for the one fatal flaw when reading your posts, but I never mention them because I don't really like being negative.

However, now this makes me really wonder how successful your own relationships are. How consistently do you practice what you preach?

fantasy queen said...

interesting topic as all men are cheats(or not) well maybe except those who've got the fear of God in them.

i think men cheat cos they don't know what they want, they no different from the women accused of not knowing what they want.

fantasy queen said...

interesting topic as all men are cheats(or not) well maybe except those who've got the fear of God in them.

i think men cheat cos they don't know what they want, they no different from the women accused of not knowing what they want.

fantasy queen said...

interesting topic as all men are cheats(or not) well maybe except those who've got the fear of God in them.

i think men cheat cos they don't know what they want, they no different from the women accused of not knowing what they want.

fantasy queen said...

interesting topic as all men are cheats(or not) well maybe except those who've got the fear of God in them.

i think men cheat cos they don't know what they want, they no different from the women accused of not knowing what they want.

MysTery said...

Good post HOWEVER, I will not say it is not thier fault that they cheat(ed), they made the choice to do so. No one else did. No matter how you explain it, though I can see what you are saying.

To me it's about alot more like learning to respect and love yourself and women also. If the guys thought about it, they wouldn't want the women doing to the same to them. Selfish $%##$%$#. Lol.

This sounds like an introduction post to me. lol.

Don said...

Tubs,

You make some great, great points. Ones that I share the exact sentiment but didn't know how to quite say it. I personally have cheated on every female I've ever been involved with. I want to say that it was the woman's fault but you and I both know better than that. I think my infidelity was a simple case of me being an ignorant bastard who never really knew or took the time to learn what it took to be what society refer to as a 'real man.' So I always ended up being a trifling man who thought only about himself.

Until the one woman who I really cared about flipped the script and showed me how I imagine so many women felt when I cheated on them. Now, I have no desire to cheat on 'my' woman. I know that doesn't assure that she will be faithful to me, but that is besides the point. When involved in a real relationship, I have made myself a promise to never cheat, ever again.

Also, I think John Gray had the right idea. There is definitely some truth to that. Mostly I will suppress my sexual desires for one woman and transform those same desires into bed with the woman I'm sleeping with.

Hey, whatever it takes NOT to mess up. LOL.

karrie b. said...

morning tubs...

-KB

James Tubman said...

@koffee dyme... neither a guy nor a gurl can know what they trully want from a partner if they are messing with a whole bunch of people at the same time

its just that simple


@a hustler who is real... well lol

i'll tell you this, when i do practice these skills and remember them i have success

thanx for stopping by


@fantasy queen... women for the most part arent that concerned about sex (except for the cancers lol, yall need sex like a human being needs air)

but women dont typically cheat when they dont know what they want in the relationship

they just complain about it typically lol

this needs to be talked about more

thanx queeny


@mys tery... when a man cheats he does more of a disservice to himself than to the woman

he has to juggle all of these different lifestyles

he cant keep it real with his partner the way he wants to

he has fight feelings of guilt and shame

he becomes a monster and he becomes an evil deceptive person

and he has no chance of being relieved of his pain because he doesnt want to accept how terrible of a person he is

but it's not his fault lol


@don... i appreciate you sharing that with me

its a big problem for many men

to be honest with you ive never done it physically but ive done it mentally many times

it disperses the energy that you should be using to enhance your relationship in the wrong direction

when you have all your energy focused on bettering the relationship then you can focus all of that waisted sexual energy towards your mate

thus the relationship will either have a dramatic improvement and it draws yall closer together

or it comes to crashing hault and you realise that this isnt the one for you

either way, i believe, it still is a good thing to do

thanx homie


@hello karie

been a good gurl lately lol

Soulistic Healing said...

Very thought provoking blog! My thoughts after reading this is:
1) Honesty: partners must give each other honesty and therefore a choice. If one partner is about having multiple partners, tell the other one so that at least they have the right to make a choice if they want to continue to be in this relationship
2) Holistically approaching a relationship: If you meet someone you adore, cherish, complete, LOVE...and they have sex with another person 1 time, do you want to abandon this relationship all together? Is it worth it?
3) LOVE YOURSELF: in a nutshell, love yourself enough to know that images on TV are images, they are not truth. Love yourself enough to know God and know what indeed love is!

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Afrobabe said...

wish they would listen...

Don said...

@ tubs: i agree @
either way, i believe, it still is a good thing to do

Anonymous said...

So the wife should stop herself from showing too much love to her husband because he is going to get scared and thus cheat on her.

Anonymous said...

MEN ARE NOT WORTH DYING FOR cause they WILL ALWAYS REMAIN AS CHEATS.YOU SEE ALL YOU NEED IS JUS BE YOURSELF.Have some dignity and jus enjoy yourself cause life is too short.

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This is extremely sexist. A woman becomes a man's personal slave when she falls in love and spends her every waking moment thinking about him? Please. Don't flatter yourself. Why don't you get your head out of the 50s.

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My Name is ADAEZE..I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster when i went to Africa to Execute some business..He is really powerful..My wife divorce me with no reason for almost 4 years and i tried all i could to have her back cos i really love her so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 5 years with no kid and she woke up one morning and she told me she’s going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when she came back from work she tender to me a divorce letter and she packed all her loads from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have her back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 4 years…So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and her picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos h ave tried so many spell casters and there is no solution…so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that she’s with a man and that man is the reason why she left me…The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring her back.but i never believe all this…he told me i will see a positive result within 3 days..3 days later,she called me herself and came to me apologizing and she told me she will come back to me..I cant believe this,it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out after trying many spell casters and there is no solution..The spell caster is so powerful and after that he helped me with a pregnancy spell and my wife got pregnant a month later..we are now happy been together again and with lovely kid..This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever thankful to him..he has helped many friends too with similar problem too and they are happy and thankful to him..This man is indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life..Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out..you can reach him here: shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com...... CONTACT THIS POWERFUL SPELL CASTER TODAY VIA EMAIL:shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com..

Shakes Spear said...

ATTENTION TO THE WHOLE WORLD:


Hello and blessed are you who found me. My name is DR SHAKES SPEAR, and am here to help you change and transform your life in the most positive way possible. I use the power of white, black craft and Wicca and voodoo spell casting to help people just like you they get the love they want and the money they deserve.


My love spell offer amazing and quick results. Do you want to find your soulmate? Do you want to reunite with a past lover and make him or her love you again? Do you need to bind a troublemaker from causing problems in your relationship? With my spell casting service, I can cast a love spell on your behalf that will help all of your wishes and dreams come true. I also do other custom spells, such as money spells, job spells, friendship spells, and good luck spells.


You may have already tried the power of spells and prayers to get what you want. Although it is true that everyone has the ability to cast spells and perform magic, spell casting is like a muscle. Everyone has this 'muscle' but the more you use it, the stronger it gets, and the more things you are able to do with it. If you are not an experienced spell caster, your spell may not be as strong, and the results not as quick as you may desire.GET YOUR PROBLEMS SOLVE HERE AND BE FREE!!

Hello to people that want to be Great,

Note: This Spell casting do not have any effect on any one, But just to get your problem solve ok.
Get your problem solve in master...You can get the bellow problems solve here.

1. Bring back lost lover, even if lost for a long
time
2. Remove bad spells from homes, business
& customer attraction etc.
3. Get promotion you have desired for a long time at work or in your career.
4. Remove the black pot that keeps on taking your money away
5. Find out why you are not progressing in life and the solution
6. Eliminate in family fights
7. Ensure excellent school grades even for children with mental disabilities
8. Stop your marriage or relationship from
breaking apart
9. I destroy and can send back the Nikolos if requested
10. We heal barrenness in women and disturbing menstruation
11. Get you marriage to the lover of your choice
12. Guarantee you win the troubling court cases & divorce no matter how what stage
13. Ensure success in work and business
14. Mental illness & bewitched
15. Can’t sleep at night or walking at night
16. Recover stolen property and
whereabouts of people that hurt you.
17. Bring supernatural luck into your home
18. Extreme protection for those doing dangerous jobs like security guards, Bank manager, cash transporters, etc

I have over 20 years of spell casting experience, and i have successfully cast spells to help hundreds of people improve their love life, financial situation, and happiness.

I can help you, and I want to help you. Read through my words and CONTACT ME VIA:shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com AS MY POWERS ARE SO STRONG AND VERY EFFECTIVE AND HAS NO BAD EFFECT INSTEAD IT HAVE A VERY GOOD RESULT AFTER CASTING THE SPELL.

Anonymous said...

I am DR SHAKES SPEAR, I welcome you all to my world of spiritual temple of solution i want to assure you that what so ever you contacted me for will come to pass with the powers of my ancestors. i want to let you know that i am here to help you in any problem you might be facing, i have been in the field of helping people for over 55years now, i want to let you know that i have helped solving over 7000 people with so many problems in different countries and they have never stopped calling me to thank me for the good work i have done for them. My good work has spread to so many countries, why, is because they have seen my good work and they helped me spread it all over to the whole world. I want to let you know that the moment you contact me just consider all your problems solved because i know that once i commence on your spell work you are going to testify to the whole world here,Email me via address.( shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com )

Are you passing through any of these problems,

DO YOU NEED YOUR EX BACK VERY FAST

DON YOU WANT YOUR LOVER TO LOVE YOU AS NEVER LIKE BEFORE

ARE YOU SUFFERING FROM A LONG TIME SICKNESS

ARE YOU FACING FINANCIAL PROBLEMS

ARE YOU SEEKING FOR A GOOD JOB

DO YOU WANT TO BECOME A HOUSE OWNER

ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A FIRST CLASS GRADE

DO YOU WANT TO COME OUT FIRST IN YOUR EXAMS

ARE YOU A STAR AND YOU WANT TO BE SO POPULAR TO THE WHOLE WORLD

DO YOU WANT TO BE RICH

DO YOU WANT YOUR BUSINESS TO KEEP MOVING

DO YOU HAVE A COMPANY OF ANY KIND AND YOU WANT IT TO EXPAND

DO YOU WANT YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE TO KEEP TO YOUR WORLD

ARE YOU FACING ANY MARITAL PROBLEMS

ARE YOU FINDING IT DIFFICULT TO GET PREGNANT FOR YOUR HUSBAND

ARE YOU EXPERIENCING MISCARRIAGES ANY TIME YOU TAKE IN

DO YOU WANT TO COMPETE IN ANY LOTTERY GAME

ARE YOU FACING HARDSHIP

HAVE YOU BEEN THREATENED BY SOMEONE

DO YOU WANT TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN ANY THING YOU LAY YOUR HANDS ON

IS YOUR SON OR DAUGHTER BEHAVING STRANGELY

ARE YOU FACING WITCH CRAFT MANIPULATIONS

DO YOU WANT TO CAST A STRONG LOVE SPELL ON YOUR GIRL OR BOY FRIEND

DO YOU NEED MAGIC POWERS TO DO ANY THING YOU WANT

ARE YOU FINDING IT DIFFICULT TO CHOOSE A LIFE PARTNER

DO YOU WANT YOUR PARENTS TO BE PROUD OF YOU

ARE YOU EXPERIENCING FAILURE AND DISAPPOINTMENT IN ANY THING YOU DO.(ETC)


If you are facing any of these problems all you just need do is to contact via email (shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com )and it will be handle with full force and with my oracle and ancestors beside me i want to make you testify just the same way other people did that i have helped. Do not die in pain and silence email me so that your problems will be solved by me with full speed.I want welcome you again to my spell temple.If you have any problem that you want my help for just email me and immediately it will be solved. Here is my email address(shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com )

Shakes Spear said...

Thanks to Shakes Spear as he is a great spell caster who brought back my lover.....

I want to tell everyone about my meeting with Prophet Shakes Spear who was able to bring back my ex lover within the period of 2days... At these moment i don't have anything to say than to appreciate the good works of Prophet Shakes Spear who you can simply reach at: shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com

1. He has got charms/spell to take away bad luck & give good luck in life

2. He fix broken relationships, marriages

3. He treats Beareness

4. He fight evil/ witchcraft/ ghost/bad spell/curses/bad dreams& cleans homes.

5. He bring back lost lover/family

6. He Makes court cases/divorces/bad debts to disappear.

7. He has herbs for losing weight

8. He solve financial and domestic difficulties

9. He has a spell charm to bring back stolen goods.

10. He has got a sale quick potions to boost customers in business.

11. He can make you gain promotions at work place.

12. He can make your admired partner to be yours.

13. He has herbs to make long live with HIV

14. He has something to make you have lot of children.

15. He has a spell/charms that can make you have a good job.

16. He can stop someone to interfere in your love relationship/family

17. He has mixtures of herbs for sexual weakness.

18. He has herbs to enlarge your sexual system to satisfy your partner.

19. He cure madness/stress/addictions/long illnesses.

20. He treat sexual transmitted infections quickly.

21. He has lucky spells/charm to increase your wealthy.

22. He has charms for gambling/lotto/ casinos.

23. He has powerful herbs for curing early ejaculations.

24. he has charms to protect away from car robbers/hijacker/properties attack& Etc


contact me of any of these today at: shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com ..... WE GOT SOLUTION TO ALL PROBLEMS HERE ...

Joy Mark said...

This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me....My name is joy mark ... My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called DOCKY BABA who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called SARAH,she testified about how DOCKY BABA brought back her Ex lover in less than 48 hours and at the end of her testimony she drop DOCKY BABA e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give DOCKY BABA a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 2 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. DOCKY BABA is really a talented and gifted man and i will stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man...If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try the great DOCKY BABA today, he might be the answer to your problem. Here's his contact:dockybabaspellcaster@hotmail.com Thank you great DOCKY BABA. Contact him for the following: (1)If you want your ex back. (2) if you always have bad dreams. (3)You want to be promoted in your office. (4)You want women/men to run after you. (5)If you want a child. (6)[You want to be rich. (7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever. (8)If you need financial assistance. (9)Herbal care 10)Help bringing people out of prison Contact him today:dockybabaspellcaster@hotmail.com..........

Joy Mark said...

This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me....My name is joy mark ... My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called DOCKY BABA who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called SARAH,she testified about how DOCKY BABA brought back her Ex lover in less than 48 hours and at the end of her testimony she drop DOCKY BABA e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give DOCKY BABA a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 2 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. DOCKY BABA is really a talented and gifted man and i will stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man...If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try the great DOCKY BABA today, he might be the answer to your problem. Here's his contact:dockybabaspellcaster@hotmail.com Thank you great DOCKY BABA. Contact him for the following: (1)If you want your ex back. (2) if you always have bad dreams. (3)You want to be promoted in your office. (4)You want women/men to run after you. (5)If you want a child. (6)[You want to be rich. (7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever. (8)If you need financial assistance. (9)Herbal care 10)Help bringing people out of prison Contact him today:dockybabaspellcaster@hotmail.com..........

Joy Mark said...

This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me....My name is joy mark ... My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called DOCKY BABA who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called SARAH,she testified about how DOCKY BABA brought back her Ex lover in less than 48 hours and at the end of her testimony she drop DOCKY BABA e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give DOCKY BABA a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 2 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. DOCKY BABA is really a talented and gifted man and i will stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man...If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try the great DOCKY BABA today, he might be the answer to your problem. Here's his contact:dockybabaspellcaster@hotmail.com Thank you great DOCKY BABA. Contact him for the following: (1)If you want your ex back. (2) if you always have bad dreams. (3)You want to be promoted in your office. (4)You want women/men to run after you. (5)If you want a child. (6)[You want to be rich. (7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever. (8)If you need financial assistance. (9)Herbal care 10)Help bringing people out of prison Contact him today:dockybabaspellcaster@hotmail.com..........