Monday, June 15, 2009

5 Essentials to Being a Great Leader (Not a Faker): Real leadership Skills that Make the People Want To Follow You. For Shizzle!

Think about a leader who you respect and admire a great deal for a minute.

Chances are that person embodies many of the attributes im getting ready to teach you today.

Some people are fortunate enough to be natural leaders.

Most however, are taught that way through precise training and repetition.

Thankfully there is a system in tact that is designed for those who seek these abilities but who arent being taught these techniques in a formal classroom.

YOU can be an effective leader too if follow these commandments!



1) Leadership Mean Thinking in Terms of the Other Person.
People dont care what you know unless they know that you care.

They can sense a faker a mile away.

So if you dont have the people's best interest at heart and if your interests are not truly aligned with theirs forget about leading them.



2) Leaders Must Eliminate their Ego.

There are many Black fakers who are out here now.

They are everywhere.


Giving vital information.


Posing as if they are truly concerned about the interests of the people.


But when you look at them closely you will see that they may be leading solely to impress others or because their ego has beeen damaged by the ones who they are now protesting against.


These people are dangerous because they will sell you out at the drop of a dime if they think that the group that rejected them will accept them back.


It is better to be forced into being a leader rather than to lead because of the desire for power or ego strokes.


Real leaders are humble.


They empathise with the people and treat them with the utmost respect and dignity.


Act in this manner and you will be a great leader.



3) Make your Program Simple to Follow. Nobody likes to foolow programs that are too hard to follow and keep up with.


Simple and easy beats complicated and hard anyday.


Break it down into an easy to understand formula and you will see how the masses will flock to you.


If it is too complicated people will ask too many questions and this will lead some to go astray because of the confusion and natural insstincts of the people.


Remember the KISS formula (Keep It Simple... Student lol)



4) Dont Get too Emotional. Never raise your voice or yell at anybody.


Passion is good but is best not get too overwhelmed with emotion because people will see that you can fly off the handle at anytime and they will think it could happen to them as well (my mistake).

Be careful.


Always remember to be respectful to everyone (even if they dont agree with you).


Dont ignore anybody.


By ignoring them you show people how small you are and how afraid you are of criticism.


You dont have to spend all day with the naysayers but dont ignore them.


This is called having charisma.



5) Know when to Ask for Help and when to Do For Self. The best time to ask for help is if you truly dont know what you are doing.


If you have a clear, unequivocal way of getting something done and you are certain it'll work, then go for it!


Knowing when to pull back and when to advance is often the skill that most makes or breaks leaders.

Always be open to advice but reckognize that you dont have to take everything thrown your way.

Be selective.

And always thnk about how this will benefit the people in the long run.

4 comments:

FreeMan said...

I like the rules and have nothing to add as they are good building blocks. Most cats will add their own personality to those rules thus differentiating themselves from others. The great thing is if everyone follows the rules then you'll have a lot in common with other leaders thus building bridges and joining forces.

Torrance Stephens - All-Mi-T said...

well said

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