Tuesday, October 14, 2008
How To Seduce A Woman. (Ironclad Techniques That Make You A Walking Chick Magnet)
Reading, my friend, is fundamental lol.
I've always had trouble in this department because i have always been scared of rejection.
i'm getting over it now because with knowledge comes power.
the power to control your own destiny.
these are time tested shots of wisdom that psychologists have dont studies on and many of the techniques just stem from common sense.
The problem might be, when you are actually in that situation, the anxiety can overwhelm us to the point that we loose focus on how to use these techniques.
some guys dont need these if they are attractive (actually you still do if you want to go further than just talking), but i need all the help i can get lol.
so here are some techniques that work wonders (these are some ive actually tried and suceeded with).
1) You Need To Look Your Best:
Of course you dont have to have a suit on or whatever. But you should definately need to have your hair straight, be well groomed, have good hygeine (extreemly important), and have trendy clean looking clothes (you dont want to be too trendy though that might make you seem immature). You should have a good cologne or some oils or something (unforgetable by the bluff daddy (p. diddy) is good, or that micheal jordan one works wonders (i've heard). Have some nice shoes, nice watch and just try to look your best.
2) You Need To Present Yourself In A Non Threatening Manner:
Many women are freightened easily and most keep their guards up when meeting strangers so you have to show yourself to be harmless (even for the ones who claim to like the thugs lol). You accomplish this best by showing those pearly whites (smiling) letting her know that there is nothing to worry about. I'm just a happy, safe guy who would like to talk to you. Also avoid sexual comments or gazing at her body at all times (this is a turn on for some women).
3) You Must Be Charming, Letting Her Know That You Like Her:
According to Robert Greene (48 laws of power) in his book "The Art of Seduction," he says attracting anybody to you (including women) involves 10% projection of success, 10% appearance, 10% intelligence, and 70% charm. Charm is basically letting someone know that you feel good about them without asking them for anything (think about that). When talking to her make eye contact (dont stare). There was a study done where a men and women who never saw each other gazed in each others eyes just for two minutes and that alone ignited attraction in and of itself. So make sure you look her into the eyes and not at the breast lol.
4) You Must Stimulate Her Brain Intellectually:
Engaging her mind is a key component to making her like you more (trust me). You have to make her think. Do this by asking her what she thinks about current events or certain topics. This shows that you value her opinion and this is good. Avoid talking about sex, sports, ex-girlfriends (my problem), cars and stuff like that.
5) You have to be EXCITING and SPONTANEOUS:
You have to make her adrenaline rush without scaring her. You also need to be in the moment. Women are emotional beings (so are men but thats another story) and you need to hook her emotionally in some way. If you do this she will be addicted to you.
6) You Have To Act Like A Gentleman:
You have to know proper dining and socializing etiquette (im from the hood so im still learning, they have books on it though and the best thing to do is ask a woman who is socially knowledgable). Its not just opening doors and bringing flowers, you have to be polite as well.
7) You Have To Know How To Complement:
This goes with charm. I'm at the library and i left my book home on that lol. As soon as i go home i'll post that because we need to know what to complement and what not to complement and how to go about doing it.
That's all i got.
If you got something better, holla back.
i need some serious help.
One more thing, before engaing the woman take 4 deep breaths so you can be more relaxed (if you got it take 4-5 capsules of st.johs wort at least an hour before time or take 2 pinches of lobillia (this works better). When taking the breaths breath in counting to 4, hold it for 4 seconds, then breath out for 4 seconds.
Also, you can look in the mirror and say im the man 50 times and say i love you 50 times too.
I guess it wont do any harm lol.