This didnt actuallly come from me this time.
This list came from a book called "The Black Man's Guide To Understanding The Woman" by Shahrazad Ali.
This book is chock full of insights into how to understand the modern day black woman, her likes and dislikes, her deepest desires and her fears, her tastes her passions.
Its really an eye opener for any guy who ever wondered why a woman would do certain things in a relationship with you.
Its also for a woman who ever wondered why she does what she does at times.
Ali is relentless in her criticisms of the modern day black woman.
She caught a lot of flack from black women all over this country when she first put this book out in the early 90's.
Let me just give you the first page in her book:
The Black Man and Woman Have A Problem
They Do Not Get Along
Before The Black Man Can Devise A Solution
He Must Know The Components Of The Problem
The First Factor Is That The Black Woman Is Out Of Control
She Does Not Submit To Guidance By Her God Given Mate The Blackman
Her Intention To Overpower And Subdue The Blackman
Is Motivated By Her Several Factors
The Most Prevalent Being Her Self Inflicted
Nearly Psychotic Insecurity
Her Disrespect For The Black Man Is A Direct Cause
Of The Destruction Of The Black Family
Needless to say this is quite a begininng to the start of a provocative conversation about what makes the modern day black woman tick.
Guys: YOU BETTER LEARN HOW TO DEAL WITH THE 21st CENTURY BLACK WOMAN AND STILL KEEP YOUR MNHOOD AT THE SAME TIME
If yu dont listen to this then one of them will eventually drive you crazy lol.
But anyway here are signs that a Black Woman will possibly make a good wife:
1) She is attentive and a good listener.
2) She enjoys going partying but has an equally good time at home.
3) She will have a strong spiritual commitment that helps her distinguish right from worng.
4) She will be partially modest in her style of dress.
5) She will like babies and children and include them in her life.
6) She enjoys cooking and preparing special meals or treats for the black man.
7) She will respect her parent, his parents and older people.
8) She has good personal hygeine.
9) She does not wear a ton of makeup.
10) She is proud of her man and claims him no matter who is present.
11) She keeps her house at least half way clean.
12) She is not a flagrant spender and almost manages her money
13) She is trustful and freely expresses her sexuality and desires when in private with her man.
14) She shares voluntarily offers help when she can.
15) She does not hold gridges too long and will apologize when wrong.
16) She will go out of her way to do special things for the black man.
17) She will speak good of him when he is not around.
18) She will defend him against verbal attacks from others
19) She does not show out or curse loudly in public.
20) she smiles when she meets him.
21) She controls her anger and does not go wild when angry.
22) She will take instructions on somethings without being combative.
23) She is respectful of Black men in general.
This is just a guideline to get a converstaion started about this topic.
I would definately consider this list if i was about to marry a woman.