Sunday, April 6, 2008

YOU HAVE THE POWER IN YOUR HANDS, LET ME SHOW YOU HOW TO USE IT





STOP WASTING YOUR TIME BEING HATEFUL AND RESENTFUL OF OTHERS AND FINALLY GET THE RELATIONSHIP YOU DESERVE!








Let me ask you a few questions.




And I want you to be honest with YOURSELF








  • Have you ever had somebody CHEAT on you and wanted to know how to get them to stop or PREVENT them if they even thought about it




  • Have you ever had PROBLEMS with somebody in your partners family or maybe with their friends and you wanted to get them to LIKE you more




  • Have you ever had MONEY ISSUES where the guy didn't make enough or didn't make anything at all or




  • Have you ever had a lazy woman who sat home all day or when she went out, only went out to spend your money




  • Have you ever wanted your partner to LOVE you more and VALUE you more




  • Have you ever wanted to get some things off of your chest without hurting the other person's feelings or starting WORLD WAR III




  • Have you ever been bored to the point of illness because the relationship lacked passion and excitement and you would give your right arm to have some FUN with this person




  • Have you ever had your partner LIE to your face over and over again about stupid stuff and you just wish that you could get them to tell the truth and shame the devil FOR ONCE




  • Have you ever felt that your partner was always trying to PLAY YOU and you wish you knew what they were up to




  • Have you ever did something EXTREMELY STUPID and wanted to know how you could get this person to take you back or at least get them to FORGIVE you




  • Have you ever stayed up all night PRAYING TO GOD saying PLEASE PUT SOME KINDNESS INTO THIS PERSON'S HEART AND PLEASE MAKE THE NAGGING STOP!!!!!!


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Well you came to the right place because I've had some of these problems too and believe me I THOUGHT I could NEVER solve them MYSELF!










But I didn't want to accept the MYTH that every Black person who got into a relationship was DOOMED for failure.





So I went out there and read some books on how to get your partner to treat you the way you should be treated, and I was ABSOLUTELY AMAZED at what I saw!



I found that getting your partner to act right wasn't as hard as I thought! And when I actually started to USE some of these little hints I couldn't believe how much they actually WORKED!



Now these aren't secrets. Many of us ALREADY KNOW some of these strategies but don't really know HOW to do it, don't have the DESIRE to do it or just think that they really don't work.



I know it was hard for me to have the desire to use some of this stuff because we can be so HARSH on each other sometimes and you might not want to even bother.



But, I tell you, when I have used some of these pointers I was AMAZED at how much more OPEN and WILLING people became to do what I suggested.



Now I know what you're thinking, seems like this stuff is manipulative and deceptive. NO! It's not deceptive AT ALL!



If you are in a relationship then your partner NATURALLY wants to be the BEST THAT THEY CAN BE for you but many of them just don't know HOW to.



By learning how to influence your partner to love you more you'll get some solutions on ALL of the problems I described above and many other issues that might affect your relationship!



I've been studying ways to influence people through psychology since I was in HIGH SCHOOL and I've learned a lot and had to learn a lot because I've always had it tough in my life and sometimes knowing how to influence others has gotten me out of a jam.



Especially in my dealings with WOMEN!



I've been in some long term relationships and am currently with a WONDERFUL Black woman so I know what it takes to make a relationship SUCCESSFUL.



Now I don't have any fancy degree. I don't have any D's beside my name, but I know a little about COMMON SENSE and I know a lot about how relationships WORK.



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I REALLY LOVE MY BLOG FAMILY



They are so supportive of me and I really appreciate all of their kind and not so kind words.



I asked my blog buddies to post what their biggest problems are in their long term connections with the opposite sex and they responded well, and I thank them sincerely for opening up to me.



So I said, DUH, why don't I go out and put something together on how to SOLVE these problems.



Did some research from some relationship exerts I trust, and of course I've performed many of these techniques myself.



And I BELIEVE, with all of my heart, that I have a GREAT program that you ALL will ENJOY.



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THIS IS WHAT I"M OFFERING YOU



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There are couples who pay THOUSANDS of dollars to get some "professional" to talk to them for A FEW DAYS about all of the different ways they can enhance their LOVE for each other.



They give you a whole bunch of books and courses on the subject paying HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS for them and some of you know how much it costs to get THERAPY from a "specialist."



And in many cases they don't offer HALF of what I have given you on my blog and what I WILL give you when you purchase my audio book called





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#3 HOW TO MOTIVATE YOUR PARTNER TO MAKE MORE MONEY



I lost my cool with a fellow blog buddy about this issue. I am so ashamed of my behavior. What i was trying to convey to her was, if you want a man to make more you can MOTIVATE him to by doing certain things. Some women don't want men who make less than them because they are afraid that the man will USE them. If you genuinely believe this then there is nothing I can do for you and you might as well move on to the next one. But for those who are sick and tired of being paranoid, lonely and miserable, in this section I present some effective techniques that you can easily perform and you'll be SHOCKED at the response you get.




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Sounds crazy, but there are very simple ways to do this and you already know them. When you have someone who's always calling you, stalks you or wants to constantly keep in contact with you, chances are you do these things to make the desire you more. However, if you realllllly like someone and you are the one who calls, stalks (kidding of course) or wants to maintain constant contact, then chances are you DESIRE THEM MORE. These facts are proven and we do these things unconsciously. Being AWARE and CONSCIOUS of these facts puts you in the position of POWER! This little tidbit of knowledge alone is worth 100 times more than what i'm selling this program for (you lucky dog).


#5 HOW TO FIGHT FAIRLY AND EXPRESS YOURSELF WITHOUT HURTING THE OTHER PERSON'S FEELINGS



These skills alone will give you the means to express yourself openly and honestly without causing the person to get angry. Some people are crazy so you might not have the motivation to help them but you sure will have the skills to do it. We talk about some real life differences in the ways that Black men and Black women communicate with each other and how to use these skills to keep them cool while you are keeping it real. Also, there are some WONDERFUL pointers to use when you are expressing yourself in this chapter.




#6 HOW TO NOT GET BORED IN THE RELATIONSHIP



When things stop getting challenging for us we get bored. And with the attention span of the average person getting shorter (including myself) getting bored is something that happens all too easily. We'll talk about things you can do and techniques you can use to spice things up again. I'll give you examples of how you can bring more passion back into the relationship and re-stimulate a boring and dull sex life too.



#7 HOW TO GET A COMPULSIVE LIAR TO TELL THE TRUTH



In this section i tell you how to pry the truth from their lying lips. I give some helpful little hints to make this process a very easy one. They also make the liar grateful for taking the pressure off of them. Liars want to tell the truth. They desire to tell it, but they are afraid of how they might look if they tell it like it is. So in this section you'll get some little gems on how to do this that make getting them to be honest seem like you aren't doing anything hard at all.



#8 HOW TO KNOW IF YOUR PARTNER IS BEING DECEPTIVE



We all want to know whether or not someone is trying to play us without letting them know exactly what our intentions are. This is an important skill to have because people are going to always seek to get something from us or get over on us in some way. Using one of the four strategies here, or all of them, will give you the real deal on whether their intentions are honest or not and the best thing about this is, in most cases, they won't even know what happened.



#9 HOW TO GET SOMEBODY TO TAKE YOU BACK AFTER YOU'VE DONE SOMETHING REALLY STUPID



We all have done things to upset, frustrate, anger or disrespect our partner. And sometimes these acts cause them pain and shame. If you did something that you shouldn't have done then you can get that person to forgive you if you do what's being discussed here. Here you see how to assure the person that you're with that you'll never do it again and get them to believe it.



#10 HOW TO GET YOUR PARTNER TO STOP NAGGING YOU ALL THE TIME



Nobody likes to be continuously harrased about something. Whatever they want might get done but this creates resentment and really motivates the other person to harbor anger for you or seek to get back at you in some way. Nagging is not good. The people who nag feel that they aren't being respected or appreciated. So they are asserting themselves to try and make you respect or appreciate them. But it doesn't work. Because even if you do what they ask it's never enough. So in this section we give you some time proven techniques that i've used to get this person to up and express themselves in a different way. This one is good!



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3 comments:

B_More BAP Life said...

You're the guru Tub!

Don said...

James Tubman, you are about to become my hero. You actually have a CD. Seriously? You definitely give good advice.

James Tubman said...

@b-more bap... i'm trying bap, i'm trying

@don... yup

took me one year and a half to finally do this

and once you listen to it many times you really start to get it