Whatta ya know: I've been tagged again by eb the celeb

Just so you know I'm not narcissistic or anything like that. I'm just trying to be a good blogger and do whatever anonymous people tell me to do. I've been tagged by my home girl eb the celeb to give seven more random facts about myself. So here we go.

#1 I can't stand anything on BET except for "Sunday's Best!"

I'm not even into church or religion but I like watching this show because my people's watch BET 24/7 and this is the only show that all of us can actually watch together (they hate lectures).

#2 I'm a candy hollic!

Oh God! When I see candy I just have to devour it! I can eat a pack of starbursts in 3 minutes. I need therapy for real.

#3 I'm not a big fan of "The Wire."

It's amazing how black women were sad to death when they killed off Stirnger Bell (Idris Alba). I can't believe some women were actually crying. LOL! But anyway, I watched the first 3 seasons and some of the scenes were filmed on the street I grew up on, but I'm not a big fan because I think that The Wire negatively paints the whole city with the same brush. Don't get me wrong, many of the things in the wire I lived through and saw with my own 2 eyes in some instances, but the whole city isn't like that. Yes the secretive down low stuff is more interesting, but how about we go into some uppity neighborhoods and display their dirty laundry before the world.

#4 I want to be one of the leading experts on improving black relationships!

I've read a lot of books and listened to a lot of material on relationships but I haven't seen many that fit our particular needs and tell things from our unique perspective. I plan to produce an audio book, at the end of this month, that's basically a how to manual for black couples in the 21st century (you should pick it up for yourself or anyone who needs it). It will also make a great birthday gift or Valentine's day gift too (kill me for a little self promoting). Eventually I'll do seminars, lectures and all that in the future.

#5 I'm obsessed with my ex!

I can't help it. After 22 years she was the first woman I ever loved! While I've dated others since then, whenever I think of the happiest moments in my life, some of the most recent ones were spent with her. I'm getting over it, but, sometimes I think about the times we had.

#6 I sang Stevie Wonder's "You and I" at my sister's wedding!

The most embarrassing shit! I grew up in the church singing on the choir (I had to sing because my grandfather was the paster and his children and grandchildren were the only ones who came). I actually took a singing class in college to learn how to sing better. At the time, however, I was smoking and I didn't believe that I could sing very well. She insisted that I do though so I did it, and I wish I could burn the tape of that incident. It was really bad! I was so bad that I apologized at the end of the song. I don't think she'll ever forgive me for that, but she insisted!

#7 I like to look at myself naked in the mirror sometimes!

I know I'm not the only one who likes doing this. Don't try to act like you don't! It's good therapy actually because if you can accept the imperfections of your body you are on the road to good mental health! Sometimes I say "I love you man" just to make myself feel better. I hug myself sometimes too.

Now I have to tag Seven people. I tag eb the celeb (now), trecia, a woman undeniable, desperate lady, lindawe, gerald and tai (how's it taste). Now you all have to tag three more and tell 7 random things about yourself. Peace!

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